A lot of people have hangups regarding strapon sex. It is understandable, as from birth we have been conditioned to think anything anal as dirty and unhealthy.Fun for two To those of you that have dared to think outside the box, its a new dimension to sex. What can it do? Well, for starters if you or your partner is male and you use a small anal plug that can massage the prostrate gland, you will have one of the biggest, eyes-rolling, oh-my-fucking-God!! orgasms. So much so that I hope you have something to wipe up the mess off anything nearby! For females too, it introduces a whole new dimension, the feeling of being full and knowing whats going on and then, at the moment of orgasm, it is pulled out...it's mind blowing!
It can also be used as a device to "control" naughty subbies (aka partners). Some people do not "like" anal sex and having their bottom filled with a strapon can be humiliating.
A word from someone who found out the hard way, when you buy a dildo or strapon PLEASE don't go and just buy a big one because you think it will give you more pleasure, it won't. Its probably too big and will cause damage to you down there. The secret with anything anal related, is to go slowly. Work your way up through dildos as you become used to them and remember the old saying "too much lubrication is almost enough!"...use an anti bacterial non petroleum based lubricant such as Elbow grease or similar. It will make it go in much easier.
When using a strapon, don't cheap out. Cheap strapon harnesses break, go for a quality leather one with a number of graded rings (The dildos go in the ring and the ring snaps into place with fasteners to secure it.) Go for a selection of dildos. (he dildo has to be flat ended to ensure it fits in the harness. That way you can experiment together and see which one suits. Nothing worse than having all that anal pleasure taken away from you because its uncomfortably big!
Now I guess you want to know how to put it up there ? ;) Well the easiest way to do it, is to position yourself on all fours on the bed. At this point your sphincter is more relaxed and not so hard to open and you could put a small well-lubed butt plug up there to get it ready for a bit of strapon sex. The fun doesn't have to stop there. Whilst its in, and one of you is on all fours, it leaves all the other eroginous zones and organs left to be used and abused. Nipple torture, cock teasing, whatever you fancy really (Ever been made to suck a strapon?) It will feel strange at first but it will be interesting. Now you can feel and play with it a bit.
I'd try to describe the feeling, but you can't unless you've experienced it. You won't want to take it out again!
On the other hand if your partner is being punished then you will need to be a bit more inventive. One thing to be aware of, is if your partner has submissive tendencies (yay!) is that it could cause them to zone out whilst A real nice dildo getting off on the submissive nature of having things inserted into their rectum and blissing out on the humiliation factor, or to put it into kinkster terms, enter subspace. So go slow and gentle and make sure everything is slow and consensual and look after your partner as once they are blissed out they will probabily lose the ability to talk for a bit! It IS that good.
unhealthy.Fun for two To those of you that have dared to think outside the box, its a new dimension to sex. What can it do? Well, for starters if you or your partner is male and you use a small anal plug that can massage the prostrate gland, you will have one of the biggest, eyes-rolling, oh-my-fucking-God!! orgasms. So much so that I hope you have something to wipe up the mess off anything nearby! For females too, it introduces a whole new dimension, the feeling of being full and knowing whats going on and then, at the moment of orgasm, it is pulled out...it's mind blowing!
